Monday, June 28, 2010

Child Pyshcology

My friend attended a child pyshcology session for her nephew at his new school. Child pyschology session for a kid who is just 4 years old? It was quite surprising for me looking at the evolvement of people and society. I always used to think why people in my grandparents era were never so much considered about their child's state of mind, putting efforts for creating a positive environment in front of their kids so that they evolve in that environment, or simply judge small things like what is the atmosphere in their kids' school etc. For them, feeding the kids and to the maximum, sending their kid to school was a role they thought they should play in the kid's life till his adolescence. They would never be bothered about knowing the reason why their kid had started crying from recent times whenever he was going to school. They might just slap him for his behavior. They did not think to dig the reason which might be as simple as that the 4 year kid was suffering from some rapid changes in his school which he was not able to cope up with, like he was not able to build relationship with the class teacher because from few days, a new teacher was coming to the class each day. One cannot deny the fact that these small childhood events and fears are carried along, ahead in life in some form or other. And it is something that defines a personality to some level.

However, in today's world, the scenario is different. Now parents take special child pyshcology sessions to understand their kid, study their behavior and go deeper into things like what can effect their child's growth in long run. I know people in my era who put efforts trying to learn how to deal with childhood aggressions. I am really amazed with the thoughts and the evolution rate with which today's generation is observing these small things and adapting to the new pyshcology which may bring a big difference in their kid's life.
And I am really hopeful that this change will bring another class of evolution and will certainly improve the quality of life in the genrations to come.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Price or Worth?

A huge difference comes when I append "less" to both words of similitude in dictionary.  The two Synonyms becomes Antonyms. The law of equality does not hold true here :
Price = Worth
However, Priceless <> Worthless
A famous painting in museum is priceless as long as it remains there as a priceless piece of art. At the moment, it is out, every painter can paint one alike and it may loose its worth. So here priceless-ness ended up as worthlessness.
But the other theory states it differently, the painting is now hung on the wall of every adjacent house -  so its more popular, hence it was worthwhile to take it out of the museum to get more price. So here the formula gets reversed. A thing that became worthless earlier being out of the museum, is now high priced. But remember, you may no longer call it "priceless".

But I would always prefer the priceless-ness of the originality of the painting in the museum. The priceless things are very precious, and so let them be. Do not force things to make them worthless.

Stop Piracy :-)

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Weakness or Strength -- ??

Everyone understands their weaknesses. Though a lot of them say that they have none. However, saying and thinking that is a weakness too, infact the biggest one, as these people cannot even confide to themselves.
Conquering the weakness become more laborious with such people as their ego comes in between them and their own self.

When once in all, I would feel that I have conquered my weaknesses into my strengths, I shall freely say - hey I have learnt to Live!

Loneliness or Solitude -- ??

Some kind of misery pain is felt with the word "Loneliness"... But "Solitude" is a relief....
Depends whether you were left alone to lead loneliness or you wanted to be alone to experience the solitude....But no matter what, one leads to other... And there is no bad to experience both...